Would Guilford have been founded by Henry Whitfield if he married Margaret Hardware, his first finance?
Upon graduation from Oxford, Henry Whitfield began the study of law. Circa 1615/1616, Henry Whitfield was engaged to marry Margaret Hardware, the daughter of Henry Hardware. In February 1616, before the marriage took place, Margaret Hardware died. In her will, probated 17 Mar 1616, she bequeathed to Henry Whitfield, “my loving friend and contracted husband, the sum of one hundred and forty pounds, one white ‘beare’ bowl, one Tune (vessel or jar) and cover and three spoons, one piece of gold of three pounds seventeen shillings, one pair of Valence and two cushings of needle work; four towels, two short and two long; three pair of sheets of flaxen of the best; four pillow-beares; one dozen of fringed napkins, four of the best table-cloths; two cupboard cloths; one feather bed, two bolsters, two down pillows, one arras coverlet, four blankets, and all the apparel that was provided for my marriage…Memorandum, that if, after all my debts and legacies are paid, the remainder of my estate be above fifty pounds, that then Mr. Nicholas Byfield have only that fifty pounds, and my loving friend and contracted husband, Mr. Henry Whitfeild, have the rest of my whole estate.”
If Margaret Hardware had not died and their marriage took place, Henry may have continued practicing law. If so, Guilford may not have been founded by him, and the stone house may never have been built for him.
Shortly after the death of Margaret Hardware, Henry Whitfield changed from law to ministry. In 1618, he was ordained a minister of the Church of England. That same year he married Dorothy Sheaffe, a daughter of Thomas Sheaffe, who was a Kentish clergyman. Whitfield became a vicar of St. Margaret’s Church in Ockley, Surrey, England.
During the reign of Charles I, in the early seventeenth century, the Church of England began its persecution of dissidents within the church. Separatists and Puritans alike were censured, and some had to flee England. In 1638, Henry Whitfield, age forty-six at that time, resigned his position as head of the Ockley church. He gathered around him about two dozen families from Surrey and Kent and a few further north in England to emigrate.
The sad untimely death of young Margaret Hardware could have altered the history of Guilford if it had not occurred, and, as a result, many of the descendants of Henry Whitfield and other founding fathers may never have been born.
Compiled by Tracy Thompson Tomaselli (24 Jun 2023)
